Philip Lee Sobocinski

Philip Lee Sobocinski, beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, educator, and coach, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 21, 2026, with his loving spouse of 58 years, Kathleen (“Kathy”), by his side.

Phil is survived by his devoted wife Kathy; daughters Shelly (Chris) and Kristin (Conrad); grandchildren Jacob (Samantha), Kayla, Jackson, Sydney, Nathaniel, and Peyton; and great-grandchildren Ignatius and Kolbe. He is further survived by his six brothers: Jerry (Sandy), Mike (Claudia), James (Suzanne), William, Thomas (Catherine), and Pat (Laura). He was preceded in death by his parents, Sherman and Genevieve, his brother Donald, and his sister Janice.

Born 80 years ago, Phil grew up and attended school in South Milwaukee. He went on to attend the University of Wisconsin–Madison on a football scholarship, where he met the love of his life, Kathy. They built a life rooted in love, family, education, athletics, and an unwavering devotion to the Wisconsin Badgers.

Phil was the original “girl dad,” spending countless hours on playing fields, basketball courts, softball diamonds, and in the driveway. He was immensely proud of his daughters’ accomplishments.

Known as “Pop” to his grandchildren, Phil found great joy watching them pursue their own passions and especially cherished time spent at the family’s beloved cabin up north. Kayaking, snowshoeing, skiing, campfires, even a wedding, were all part of the memories made there. The cabin was a place of laughter and tradition, and Pop was at the center of it all.

After his collegiate football career, Phil had a brief stint in the NFL, including time with the Atlanta Falcons. He then dedicated 23 years to teaching and coaching at West Allis Central High School. Known affectionately as “Coach Sobs”, he left a lasting impact on hundreds of student athletes. He coached with intensity and heart, emphasizing character, integrity, resilience, and self-belief. In recognition of his influence and success, Phil was inducted into the Wisconsin High School Football Coaches Hall of Fame.

Phil earned his bachelor’s degree from UW-Madison, a master’s degree from UW-Whitewater, and his PhD from UW-Milwaukee. He went on to serve in leadership roles, including Superintendent of three school districts: Monona Grove, West Allis-West Milwaukee, and Warren Township in Illinois.

Beyond school and sport, Phil was an avid golfer and traveler. From St. Andrews to Paris to the Galápagos, he embraced the world with curiosity and appreciation. He lived fully and intentionally, always valuing time spent with family.

Phil will be remembered for his booming voice on the sidelines, his unwavering standards, his quick wit, and his favorite sayings: “Run the damn ball!” and “Moderation in all things…including moderation!” which perfectly captured his spirit.

In celebration of Phil’s remarkable life, a memorial service will be held at a later date. Details will be shared with family and friends.

Phil Sobocinski lived a life of purpose, love, and laughter. His legacy lives on in the countless lives he shaped, the family he cherished, and the values he instilled in all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Memorial contributions can be made to the University of Wisconsin Foundation. Please designate gifts to the Badger Football Scholarship Fund in memory of Philip Sobocinski.